<< Previous | Index | Next >>"THE VIRTUE OF PUNCTUALITY" INTRODUCTION 1. A longtime concern of mine has been the lack of appreciation regarding punctuality... a. "the quality or habit of adhering to an appointed time" b. "strict observance in keeping engagements, promptness; antonym: tardiness" 2. Especially as it relates to arriving on time for services of the church... a. Not the occasional lateness due to unforeseen circumstances b. But the habitual practice of being late due to a lack of concern of being on time 3. Is there a need for concern regarding the lack of punctuality...? a. Evidently not in the mind of many Christians b. Yet I believe it has an adverse effect on the spiritual growth and health of a congregation [To appreciate the basis for my concern, let's first consider some...] I. VOICES ON POSSESSING PUNCTUALITY A. SOME DO NOT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY... 1. "The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it." - Franklin Jones 2. "I am a believer in punctuality though it makes me very lonely." - E. V. Verrall 3. "Laugh and the world laughs with you, be prompt and you dine alone." - Gerald Barzan B. YET OTHERS VALUE IT HIGHLY... 1. "Promptitude is not only a duty, but is also a part of good manners; it is favorable to fortune, reputation, influence, and usefulness; a little attention and energy will form the habit, so as to make it easy and delightful." - Charles Simmons 2. "I give it as my deliberate and solemn conviction that the individual who is habitually tardy in meeting an appointment, will never be respected or successful in life." - W. Fisk 3. "Punctuality is the soul of business." - Thomas C. Haliburton 4. "Punctuality is one of the cardinal business virtues: always insist on it in your subordinates." - Don Marquis 5. "I owe all my success in life to having been always a quarter of an hour before my time." - Lord Nelson 6. "Punctuality is the politeness of kings." - Louis XVIII [One might wonder whether punctuality is really all that important. How about for the Christian, is it a sin to be habitually late for one's appointments? Consider some of the...] II. VICES OF LACKING PUNCTUALITY A. MISTREATMENT OF OTHERS... 1. Lack of punctuality is a theft of someone else's time a. Especially as an employee who is late for work b. But even as friends (or brethren), where we have agreed to meet at a set time 1) "If I have made an appointment with you, I owe you punctuality, I have no right to throw away your time, if I do my own." - Richard Cecil 2) "Unfaithfulness in the keeping of an appointment is an act of clear dishonesty. You may as well borrow a person's money as his time." - Horace Mann 2. Lack of punctuality is a lack of respect for others a. E.g., our brethren whom we are to honor - Ro 12:10; Php 2:3 b. Including our Lord, Who honors us with His presence - cf. Mt 18:20 c. Most would be unlikely to be late for an appointment with someone whom they want to honor (e., the President, or a boss at work) d. If we honor others better than ourselves, we will make it a point to be on time when meeting with them e. "Few things tend more to alienate friendship than a want of punctuality in our engagements. I have known the breach of a promise to dine or sup to break up more than one intimacy." - William Hazlitt 3. Lack of punctuality is a violation of the Golden Rule a. We are treat others as we would want to be treated - Mt 7:12 b. Are you not bothered when others are late in meeting you? c. Suppose you were teaching a class, and half the class was consistently late? 1) How would that make you feel about your efforts? 2) Not only during class, but the time spent in preparation? 4. Lack of punctuality is a violation of the Greatest Commandment a. We are to love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength - Mk 12:30 b. "...when we are late for these meetings to worship God or to learn of God, it may be indicative God is not really as important as whatever causes us to be late, be it our bodily rest, our meals, our recreation, our chores, etc. We are, of course, not saying that all lateness for the appointed means would fall into this sin. But if we are habitually late for the means, we must really examine our attitude towards the Lord. One who is generally on time for other appointments but is usually late for worship or prayer is probably experiencing severe backsliding. One who is generally late for all appointments is probably also suffering some form of tardiness in the soul. No one who genuinely loves Christ can be late for an appointment with Him without feeling shame and embarrassment." - Pilgrim Covenant Church web site B. MISSED OPPORTUNITIES... 1. What others have said in this regard a. "Tardiness often robs us opportunity, and the dispatch of our forces." - Niccolo Machiavelli b. "The best-laid plans, the most important affairs, the fortunes of individuals, the weal of nations, honor, life itself, are daily sacrificed because somebody is 'behind time.' There are men who always fail in whatever they undertake simply because they are 'behind time.' There are others who put off reformation year by year, till death seizes them; and they perish unrepentant, because for ever 'behind time.' Five minutes in a crisis is worth years. It is but a little period, yet it has often saved a fortune or redeemed a people. If there is one virtue that should be cultivated more than another by him who would succeed in life, it is punctuality; if there is one error that should be avoided, it is being 'behind time.'" - Freeman Hunt 2. Think of the missed opportunities when we are late to services of the church a. The opportunity to visit with brethren and visitors (more on this below) b. The opportunity to be of service should there be a last minute need c. The opportunity to hear some point, some truth, that was presented prior to arriving late [Have we squandered opportunities due to our lack of punctuality? Let's take a look at the...] III. VALUE IN PRACTICING PUNCTUALITY A. THE IMPACT ON OUR VISITORS... 1. Who often arrive early themselves a. It being their first time, they often allow more time to find the location b. It being an opportunity for us to welcome them and briefly visit with them c. OTOH, what must they think when there are no teachers to welcome their children, or when classes or services start and half the congregation is absent? 2. After services have begun a. There will not be the distraction of others arriving 5-10-15 minutes late b. They will observe the participation of the entire congregation 3. When the services are over a. The visitors will likely leave quickly b. Often the only time we have to visit with them is before the services B. THE IMPACT ON OURSELVES... 1. It will make us better persons a. "I have always been a quarter of an hour before my time, and it has made a man of me." - Lord Nelson b. "I could never think well of a man's intellectual or moral character, if he was habitually unfaithful to his appointments." - Nathaniel Emmons 2. It will make us better servants a. Providing service to our visitors through meeting them before as well as after b. Providing service to our brethren by edifying them through your prompt presence c. Providing service to our Lord by honoring Him with your punctual arrival CONCLUSION 1. I hope that I have encouraged you to appreciate "The Virtue Of Punctuality"... a. "Better three hours too soon than a minute too late." - William Shakespeare b. As someone else said: "Better late than never, but better never late!" 2. How to be on time, one may ask? It really quite simple... a. Plan to be early, and start out early b. Plan to arrive 15 minutes before services begin "Consider what I say, and may the Lord give you understanding in all things." - cf. 2Ti 2:7<< Previous | Index | Next >>
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